If you're a heterosexual man and are actively seeking to deflower women, you don't enjoy sex, you just enjoy defiling the supposed temple of purity virgin women are made out to be and as such should be castrated. #sex #virginity #sexism
@Hypolite Petovan I can understand your point here but please also know that women can be into removing virginity of males, too. It seem to be some kind of "challenge" to have more males/females removed their virginity. For me, I feel proud being able to remove it from a woman. 😀
And yes, it is a fantasy, only into removing virginity, close to raping a woman. It seem to be fascinating to some people how virgin females/males respond to first touch on their genitals.
Again, I didn't talk about women in my original post, which apparently is something two out of three people who commented didn't see.
Men's virginity enjoys the opposite social stigma to women's virginity (I'm deliberately using "men" and "women" since it has nothing to do with biology). Virginity among men is shameful because sexual prowess is a strong social marker. The incentive for men is then to lose it as soon as possible, which in turn can make some heterosexual men frustrated because they feel the social pressure but have had negative relationship experiences with women and end up bitter and resentful in incel groups where sex is considered a commodity women are deliberately withholding from them.
When you, as a man, don't loose virginity in a woman, you are considered as gay. That is what they did with me, but I'm truly never gay, for 1000% sure. But if a woman is 28 and still virgin all is fine, sure it is. So why not with guys? Can't there be a virgin man being 25+ years old? I lost mine when I was 25, btw.
Is this a real question you expect an answer to? I feel like this thread has most of the elements required to answer it, with asymmetrical descriptions of both women's virginity and men's virginity.
No, it was half-irony. 😀 Sure, men do have a virginity that at some point will be removed (I talk about regular men, not those "I don't need sex" or "I want to die as a virgin" guys/girls).
@Hypolite Petovan My girlfriend wonders: "Oh, women are withholding sex from men?" I told her, that they sometimes invent stories why they don't want. Maybe other reasons?
Again, this isn't generally happening, it just is a false narrative incels created to relieve the social pressure of having sex from their shoulders to place it on women when they could just refuse the social pressure altogether instead.
Bottom line, sex isn't a due nor a commodity, and when women refuse sex to men, it is overwhelmingly because they don't fee like it and not as a leverage for nefarious motives.
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And yes, it is a fantasy, only into removing virginity, close to raping a woman. It seem to be fascinating to some people how virgin females/males respond to first touch on their genitals.
Hypolite Petovan
Men's virginity enjoys the opposite social stigma to women's virginity (I'm deliberately using "men" and "women" since it has nothing to do with biology). Virginity among men is shameful because sexual prowess is a strong social marker. The incentive for men is then to lose it as soon as possible, which in turn can make some heterosexual men frustrated because they feel the social pressure but have had negative relationship experiences with women and end up bitter and resentful in incel groups where sex is considered a commodity women are deliberately withholding from them.
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When you, as a man, don't loose virginity in a woman, you are considered as gay. That is what they did with me, but I'm truly never gay, for 1000% sure. But if a woman is 28 and still virgin all is fine, sure it is. So why not with guys? Can't there be a virgin man being 25+ years old? I lost mine when I was 25, btw.
Hypolite Petovan
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Bottom line, sex isn't a due nor a commodity, and when women refuse sex to men, it is overwhelmingly because they don't fee like it and not as a leverage for nefarious motives.
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